Three Secrets to Embodying Your Feminine Power and Attracting Better Relationships
If you’re struggling in your relationships, if things always seem hard, unfulfilling, or disappointing, there’s a reason.
It’s not because you’re unlovable.
It’s not because you have bad luck.
It’s because you’re still acting from a wounded place.
You haven’t yet embodied the confident, feminine energy that attracts the right relationships to you effortlessly.
And that’s what we’re changing today.
In this post, I’m sharing three secrets that will activate your feminine power and transform your energy—so you can become the woman who naturally attracts the relationship she wants.
Ready? Let’s get into it.
Secret #1: Stop Accepting the Bare Minimum
The biggest shift that will transform every single area of your life—relationships, money, friendships, health, happiness—is this:
Raise your standards.
If you’ve had a pattern of bad relationships, disappointments, or struggles, you’ve likely developed low expectations without even realizing it.
You don’t expect people to:
• Show up for you.
• Treat you well.
• Go out of their way for you.
And because you don’t expect it, you accept whatever you get.
Maybe it started in childhood. Maybe you had no good examples of love, relationships, or success. Maybe life taught you that expecting more only leads to disappointment.
But here’s the truth:
Your life is a reflection of what you believe you deserve.
So if you want more, you have to start expecting more.
How to Raise Your Standards
From now on, you:
• Expect to be treated with love and respect.
• Expect people to value and appreciate you.
• Expect your life to be fulfilling and abundant.
And this isn’t about demanding it from others.
This is about embodying it.
It’s about showing up in life as the woman who already knows she’s worthy of more.
When you do that, people will naturally start treating you differently—because they will feel your confidence.
This shift alone will change your relationships forever.
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Secret #2: Pamper Yourself Like a Goddess
Most women make the mistake of waiting for:
• A relationship
• A financial goal
• A life milestone
Before they start treating themselves well.
But the key to embodying your feminine energy is this:
You don’t wait for happiness.
You create it now.
That means pampering yourself today, not later.
What Does Pampering Look Like?
It’s not just bubble baths and spa days (unless that’s your thing).
Pampering is anything that:
• Makes you feel good.
• Puts you in your soft, feminine energy.
• Replenishes your mind, body, and spirit.
For one woman, it might be a massage.
For another, it might be gardening.
For someone else, it’s cooking a beautiful meal.
Find what makes you feel taken care of and give it to yourself daily.
Because when you start treating yourself like a queen, the world will mirror that energy back to you.
Secret #3: Express Yourself Fully & Fearlessly
The final step to activating your divine feminine energy is this:
Start speaking your truth.
• Say what you want.
• Ask for what you need.
• Express yourself openly and unapologetically.
So many women stay silent about their desires, thinking their partner, friends, or family should just know what they want.
But people aren’t mind readers.
If you want something, say it.
If something bothers you, speak up.
If you love something, express it.
This goes for your relationships, your friendships, your work, and your life.
The more you express yourself, the more magnetic you become.
How to Practice Feminine Communication
If you struggle to communicate in relationships, start small.
• Speak up in everyday situations.
• Compliment a stranger.
• Express a small opinion instead of holding back.
You’ll quickly realize that:
1. Nothing bad happens when you speak up.
2. People actually respond positively to your honesty.
And when you bring this into your romantic relationships? Game changer.
Because a truly feminine woman doesn’t beg, force, or demand.
She simply expresses what she desires and allows the right people to step up.
You Are the Source of Your Own Power
The biggest lesson in all of this is simple:
You are the source.
• The love you want? It starts with you.
• The abundance you crave? It starts with you.
• The confidence you admire in others? It starts with you.
When you embody these three secrets, your entire life transforms.
So here’s your challenge:
Start today.
• Expect more.
• Pamper yourself.
• Express yourself fully.
And watch how everything begins to shift.
If you’re ready to fully step into your divine feminine energy and transform your relationships, check out my coaching, courses, and products at modelpatty.com.
I love you, and I’ll see you in the next one. 💖
- Patty StayWell
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